January 2010
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WatchI really want to get my hands on this - it looks like it hits a lot of my buttons :)
deepdownandkinky:
American Fetish is an independent film by Michael Simmons. “When the son of an alleged killer inherits a mysterious “blue movie” that may be the key to a 50 year old murder, he finds himself drawn into a forbidden world of sexual obsession. But the closer he gets to the heart of the mystery,...
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Male submission art
Has ‘male submission art’ turned you into a top? It did it to me ;)
Interestingly, while I really appreciated what may had done getting male submission art up and running (because there was absolutely a need for it), I didn’t personally find the images appealing at all … until I found myself in a relationship with Hylas that had a power dynamic with me as...
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“What you’ve learned is that people approach this model with many, many different...”
– Are two (or more) lovers better than one? Rational, poly-friendly yet brutally honest advice from Sasha, the advice columnist at Uptown Magazine. Can we get a “THANK YOU” to Sasha for some honest advice about non-monogamy? (via cunningminx)
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Being judged
How do you deal with people who judge your lifestyle?
I’ve never really had much of an issue with people judging my lifestyle. Possibly that makes me lucky. The closest is extended family - but they’ve pretty much always disapproved of everything. Not being Christian, being civilly unioned instead of married, not wanting kids, being attracted to women, freely listing...
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Fetishes and me
Is there any part or type of fetish that you do not and would not participate in?
I have less than no interest in taking part in scat play. Poop isn’t really an issue for me - I engage in a lot of anal play, and have experimented with enemas - but I don’t really want to eat it, or have it smeared on me, or play with it.
Most everything else? Well, most other things...
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Why I started blogging
How/why did you start your blog? Advice for a would be blogging couple?
I started my sex blog because I wanted to be able to write more about my sexual experiences and growth, and felt unable to do that on the livejournal I had been keeping. So I split myself out, and started to write as Dee.
Advice? Two things: try to post consistently - at least once a week, if not more. And...
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Body size
Are the partners that you’re with large, or are they small? Has that effected how you’ve felt about yourself?
My partners have been a variety of sizes. Generally my male-identified partners are slimmer/smaller than me, but not always. My female-identified partners have ranged from teensy and petite to large and voluptuous.
Their bodies have made no difference to my...
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“When I have sex, I don’t just get off on my own kinks and my own pleasure. I...”
– Greta Christina’s Blog: Broccoli or Tofu? Sexual Differences in Relationships (via sexisnottheenemy) (via mrsexsmith)
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December 2009
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Sexual to-do list
Is there anything on your sexual “to do” list that you cannot bring yourself to ask your s.o. to do with you?
Well, I have quite a few significant others (the joys of being polyamorous)! One of the great things about multiple partners is, in my case, that each of them are into different sexual things.
So, while I wouldn’t ask my husband Apollo to tie me up and...